Necessary Pain Brings Nothing But Beauty

Evil people don't want to face their heart towards the pain that they have caused and that they have inside.

Facing your pain hurts, but so does a woman giving birth to a child. Face your pain, your fears, and grow anew. Thats how you grow stronger and happier.
Who wants to watch a TV with smoke blocking the screen?

So, intern, evil people suck because they hate the very thing that they are, life. IF evil people do not like life, they must be stopped, because they will only try to stop yours.

Don't let evil people fool you from gathering the positivity you know you can. Because the more positivity you gather, the closer they will have to come to facing their fears, because everyone will be doing it.

- Joey JcM

Cheap Can Equal Death

Misery is the cheapest form of affection.

Like seriously, would you pay a 50 cents for a steak?

- Joey JcM

We Each Have A Present to Give. Go to Where There is Christmas, So You Can Give It.

NEVER say nobody likes you. Why? Because each person has something unique to offer to the world, that nobody else has. So therefor, EVERYONEs got something special.

If your not getting to respect you deserve, just simply get away from the people who simply just hate life. Let them molt by themselves.

- Joey JcM

The Difference Between A Strict Parent, and a Abusive Parent.- Parental Abuse is Real

There's a difference between a parent simply being strict, and parental abuse.

Being strict, is:
- You can still take music lessons if you want.
- You can take karate lessons if you want. And if you decide you don't like it, you can quit and move on.
BuuUUt, maybe you have to go to bed early, and are demanded to throw the garbage out.

Abuse, is when:
- A parent is trying to prevent there child from doing anything. Even things that will help them advance socially, or academically.

In closing, a real parent may be a pain in the a$$, but does not try to take your life, and growing process away.

Parental abuse is real, and is the reason why so maybe children turn to negative influences on the TV and radio, and even negative influences in school; certain friends.

Most of the time, the kids are actually nice kids, but they have tried everything to get through to their parents, but it's to no avail. The parent or parents are plain and simply, abusers.

I've noticed that a lot of people of the baby boom generation don't exactly treat their kids right. Judging from the parents of my peers, and even from personal experience.
Could this be the reason why, kids I grew up with, that had so maybe positive influences, and acted with so much love, are now turning to drugs, and given up on what they were?
I believe they had such high hopes, and certain people tried to destroy them. It's the only thing that makes sense.
Although with me, i'm sure there are many other people out there from my era, that are still willing to fight and show who they are, and what they are truly made of.

Parents, as long as you listen to what your children have to say, there is no reason for them to resort to drugs. And if they still turn out to be bad... well then, the only explanation, is that they are possessed by the devil... lol.

KNOW your kids, and treat them as for who they are. Thats all they could ever ask for.

- Joey JcM

Ofcorse There's a Place for Stupid People!

People who say stupid things, most of the time don't know their own names. They look for the cheap and easy respect, because misery excepts anything.

- Joey JcM

Let Them Know, That It's You Who Holds the Key.

If you don't be yourself, the people that are looking for what you are, will never find you.

- Joey JcM

The People You Love Have It, but, Where Do We Get It?

Style.

It comes from experimenting.

We must let each other be free, in order to bring to life the things that come to us from the other side. Things that are not produced with our eyes, but with our hearts.

The inside world is real, and it comes first.

- Joey JcM

Being Tricked Can Cause SO Much Damage. Face the Trickster.

Fear can drive you mad.
It could ruin your life for as long as you let it. You could wake up when your 55 even and say "Wow... I don't even know where I am right now"

Why let it ruin your life? When most of the time you just have to face it, and it goes away.
The other percentage of the time, it might just need a little kick in the a$$. Nothing too hard. Very simple

So what are the options? Grow some nuts and face your fear, ooOOooor.... don't take a couple of baby steps, and have your life ruined?

I've seen plenty of people not face their fear, and alls they want to do is destroy the world around them, and some are VERy crafty at doing so. I mean, how could you NOt be disgraced at yourself, if you are not even able to face something as harmless as a bunny.

Yes, fear is just a bunny that is about to do magic tricks. Just knock the wand out of it's hand. thats really all it takes.
Imagine, alittle bunny rabbit is telling a grown man what to do, and bossing them around. How would you feel?Pretty pathetic. Well, thats what fear is, harmless.

Now i'm not saying to NOT be afraid. There are things in your life will make you affraid, no matter what level you are on in your life. But the point is to not run away, and be brave, and fight through the fear.

There are some that will ultimately choose not to though, as these are the people who simply want to watch the world burn.

Face your fear, so you will be able to love your life. Because if you can't love your life, your not going to have a good one. And these are the people that want to destroy the world; hence want to create "problems" in their heads with other people, so that they take their minds off of what kind of cowards they are.

- JcM

What Parents are Supposed to Do.

A father teaches a sun how to be a man,
and
a mother gives a sun a reason to be a man.

Luckily, when I didn't have either, my grandfather is such a great person/spirit, he taught me everything I needed to know, which showed me plenty of reasons to want to be alive.

Thank you Obi-Wan Kenobi. You were my only hope.

- JcM

Negative Likes to be Around Negative, and Positive Likes to be Around Positive. The Better Prize Will Test Your Worth.

I've prob blogged about something similar before, but in my journeys, I felt the need to send this message again. Perhaps I have formed better words, and have tapped deeper into the subject.

In my experience so far, what does it take to be successful? Well, quite simply, it comes down to the infamous phrase - "If you put yourself around shyt, your life will be shyt" And really, it's one of the most powerful phrases to live by.

FRIENDS WILL NEVER MAKE YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF.
THEY WILL ONLY STAND BY YOUR SIDE AND HELP YOU RISE.

Some will even hurt you in ways that you can't see. Simply, if your hurting, it's hurt. Don't let them trick you, and allow you to continue to be their punching bag.

Some people use "nice" as a weapon. Don't fall for it. GUNS COME IN ALL DIFFERENT SHAPES AND SIZES.

There was a time when I had people in my life that were "helping me" but I always felt that I wasn't able to reach my full potential with them. Rise to the next level, and beyond.
I fooled myself into thinking these people were out for my best interests. I didn't want to believe otherwise, because of the pain I was experiencing in my life at the time. But no one deserves hurt!

One day I decided to be a man, and take my life into my own hands. And I did.
I faced many demons within my family and defeated them. There are still more, but I would say the war is now waning, or just about at an end.
I got rid of people who I knew at the first sign of being myself, they would try to defeat me, as they always had.
Some need to be vanquished, and some just need a punishment. Either way, if your being hurt, you fight to get those people out of your life.
A TRUE FRIEND WILL COME TO YOU, and apologize.

Some people though, don't even realizing they're hurting people anymore, because they're so deep into the bullshyt in their head, where they are CONVINCED, and believe they're own lies. These people will deny their wrong doing till the end!

So I ask you, PLEASE don't think you can get through to people who your ... well, not already getting through to. If that is the case, they do not care about you. Plain and simple No one deserves to be treated that way.
Like I said, a true friend will come to you, face the shame of what they did, and apologize. But if they're not facing the shame, the apology is no good.

I'm able to reach potentials now, that I never thought possible, and scary myself alittle too, because there seems to be no end.

Fight for your rights, and your happyness. And by ALL MEANS NESSESARY, get rid of people who are trying very hard to make you out to be something your not. I abused myself like that for too long, now i'm talking from experience, and hope to be an example, that saving yourself is possible.

I look back now and say ... "Wow I cant believe there was a time when people were really trying to ruin my life, and I sit by and actually let that happen. I actually allowed that to go on, even if in the littlest form."

NO ONE is going to tell me that i'm a bad person.

Now, as my usually self, and making the world smile, and REALLY reaching potentials, and new highs with my art that I a VERY excited about. Overall, I am very excited, as a person who fought for their freedom from tyranny should be.

Give your energy to shyt, and shyt will come for you. Give your energy to life, love and happyness, and the light will come to you.

- Joey JcM