They Will Try to Take the Thing the Thrives Every Man

A Man has to have someone, or something to stand for.
Even if it's one person even, in the darkest times, even if you have that one person, you can still find home, which will keep you knowing who you are.

But when you have no one, be aware of the people who can sense that, and will try to play the role of someone worthy of being your heart. When desperate you are, these people might be able to slip in easily, only to turn heal when least expected, and then you will feel like you are left with nothing. Nothing to defend... nothing to be a man for.

It is in this time, when all else might fail, that you must remember the one person that will never leave your side.... you. Think of you, and everything that made you you. The only time when you don't have yourself, is when you hurt your body. ABUSE is a better word. (And that can consist of hanging around people that hurt your world, or abusing yourself with harmful substances. Abuse being something you use as an answer to your pain. Drugs only bury the pain deeper, you eventually will have to face it. The sooner the better. This all most of the time comes from being around destructive people.)

If you have heart, and get involved with people who have none, maybe in a vulnerable hour, they will try to destroy you in anyway they can. Vicious. Heartless. And souless. People that no matter WHAT you've been through, can act like they never knew you. A TRAIT OF SOMEONE WHO's INTENTIONs WERE NEVER TO BE YOUR FRIEND, BUT AN ALTERNATIVE MOTIVE TO "getting to know you". TO FIND OUT WHAT YOU KNOW, TO USE IT FOR THEIR SELFISH GAIN, ETC. It's some sight if you encounter these zombies.

But hey... no big deal...

... just realize, that these people really aren't "the way it is". There is no way your "hopeless" if you find yourself in this position. If your smart enough to identify the pain, then you already prob have other people in your life, who you may have been ignoring, who already TRULY care about you.
Alls you have to is get up out of the cesspool, and take a shower. And what normal person would want to keep themselves in a cesspool. It causes disease, which could kill you. So if you believe when these zombies tell you the cesspool is good for you, you have no one to blame but yourself.

I realized it. I felt the pain. And it burned... and it burned whatever crust I had over my eyes, so then I could see clearly. It's like child birth. All that pain, but to get to someone so beautiful, the pain will then be recognized as a minimal cost.

- Joey JcM

How People Following a Dream, Complete That Mission

For people who have a dream, here's alittle tip:

If your following a dream, you must realize, that the people who hire the dreamers, simply look for whoever is going to put the most into what they're doing, and the quality they put into what they're doing. And the people who make it, are people who TRULY love what they're doing.

I believe if you don't love what you are doing, thats when you get in trouble, or get mad. A lot of people CLAIm they want to do something, but they're always upset for some reason. This is most likly because they want what you want just so they can get the glory, so maybe they feel like they have some sort of control. They don't want to do it because they want to contribute something to life. Don't worry about those people though,; here's an infamous fraise that I like "Evil gets crushed under it's own weight".

So if you have a dream, you just have to be one of the people in that business who are going to be able to contribute the most to it, and something wortwhilehand, and how do you do that? By loving it.

- Joey JcM

Why You Are Important, and The People Who Will Try to Make You Think Otherwise

When you have an unique idea or talent, don't think of yourself as alone. Instead, realize this is a gift, or an offering, something only YOU can give, to the people you love. Something unique you can bring to the celebration.

If you don't have people to love, or love you, this is prob your scenario:
You prob feel like you have something more inside, a feeling that your not moving to your full potential. Something is just off or not right. In this case, the people around you, are prob people who want to exploit you for being yourself. NO ONE deserves to be in a such a disgusting scenario.

There was a time in my life when I was being abused, and things really went to hell for me. (plus, add on following your dream, alone, with practically no reason for the heart to beat in site on top of it... it was just a bad scenario). I might have made some mistakes with people, Don't really remember what I might have said, (stupid ish doesn't register) but what I do know, is that I was hanging with people who were giving a certain kind of affection, only for the purpose to mask the fact that they wanted my soul, because of who i was, and what I should for. I was week to this because of how badly hurt I was at the time, from the family abuse, to the hate I was surrounded in with the people I had gotten invovled with.And if I wasn't hating something or someone, I knew I would be attacked by these so called "friends" who were" goOOOood peoplllle". And I'm totally not about hate, i'm much better and smarter then that. So I always knew, a time was going to come when I had to get out of there, but I knew first, I had to fix my family life.
And sooner or later, when I started standing up for what I believed in, started to fix my life, what happens? Those so called "friends" IMMEDIATELY started to attack me, from all angles. My happyness was an enemy to them, because my weakness made me a pawn, but no more.
So when things came to a boiling point, I got rid of them. Said my peace, told them the things they were doing wasn't right, and went on my way.
People like that will try to pretend they live in a fantasy world, where the good people are evil, because the day they step out of the fantasy world, they will have to face their own pain, and they don't have the soul or the heart to do that. So everyday they wake up and say "How can I hate today?" or "What problem can I cause to take the attention away from the problems I cause, and try to convince people that i'm a good guy in the process, because they're not seeing the evil i'm creating over here, because I caused a fony problem over there". Everyday people like this have to make a new problem. It's like a drug. People that don't want to face their pain, and fix their life, constantly have to take drugs to get their mind off of what they are afraid of.

If this is the case, do some soul searching, get rid of those people, and get them out of your way, and life. They will ALWAYS try to pin you as a bad person, but just ultimately realize, that them doing that, is the biggest favor they can give you, because they're giving you reason to get them out of your life, which they don't deserve to be in in the first place.
Find and stick with people who will not judge you for who you are. Because what you have to offer is beautiful. Avoid people who will "be your friend", but require you to give up your soul. In other words, thats simply a person trying to scam you, so they can bring you down to their misery level.

Try to get close to you, only to find out how to destroy you.No more, and no less.

I don't usually like writing long blogs, but I feel there is a lot of GOOD people out there who get into these messes, because of the pain they're facing in their life, but might feel that they don't know how to get out of it. Well, i'm telling you, get rid of those people that hurt your way of life (the garbage) and pursue the things that bring you life.
I've never been happier, and more at peace in my life. No reason to hate anymore, thank god, and I couldn't ask for more because that is not my nature in the slightest.

I'm not a "hippy", I'm just too smart to not be able to fix my own problems, and have to blame them on someone else.

Certain family members even tried to make me believe I couldn't fix my own problems. Which is what lead me to not solve my problems, which created a lot of messes in my life. That might have worked when I was little, but not anymore.

Becoming a man is not about throwing away your childhood, but simply finally choosing what you stand for.

Who knows what family members were going through to even to do this to me, but now that I've stood up for what I believe in, and there is even peace with them.... when I have to deal with them, lol! Whatever may have happened, simply standing up for what I believed in brought me new life. The road might have been hell, but scenarios like that, only allow you to appreciate heaven even alittle more. I had Torn the sith skin off of me, and it has enabled me to become who I truly am, so I wouldn't change anything for how I feel right now.

Some may even be reading this write now, and calling me "phony". But there is nothing but positivity in this blog. Simply and a message to get harmful people out of your life, that don't deserve to be in it. There is no directions to attack anyone here.

The people that are calling me "phony" for writing this, are the people who i'm talking about in this blog. Trying to say something else is the problem, because they know that they might qualify for one of these "users". They know they're starting the fight, and don't want to be blamed for it. Bottum line, is there shouldn't be a fight, but thats not the goal of a user. Users, like I said, simply always need negativity happening, so they can talk about the problem they created, to serve as a detraction from what the person is actually causing.

If a person is talking about hate, drama, and problems all the time, I would say pretty much the bottom line is, they're the person that starts it, but will always blame it on another source. STAY AWAY FROM THESE CREATUES! AND JUST LET THEM BURN! The hardshest punishment you can give them - Not joining their fight, and adding to the misery. Misery is oxygen to them! SUFFICATE THE BYTCHEs! Hehe

There is always a way people, even in the darkest hour. It might require pain, but there is always a way.

If I see the people that caused me that pain, I just do my thing, because I'm truly at peace now, and I can. If anything I say "How ya doin", and continue doing my thing. I KNOw how miserable hating can make you feel, and I'm TELLing you, you don't wanna be in that position. Even though they still prob celebrate any failures I might have, alls I see is people dancing IN a fire, and not around it, and thats their loss, because I don't want my skin to look like Freddy Crugger.

- Joey JcM

Some May Think It's Love, But What is the Tool that Lets You Know for Sure?

Love you may not be able to see with your eyes. It's just that much of a wonderful thing.

..but hold on! TRUST you can see with everything else! So pay attention to what your body is trying to tell you, because it's true.

Trust is what what lets you know the love your experiencing isn't a phony love.

Your innards tell you what is the better brand TV, if your already didn't know:
"Brand Xxxxxxxxxx", or Sony.
They're both TV's but.... catch my drift?

- Joey JcM

If You Hate, You've Simply Been Tricked.

As far as people that hate, you should just feel bad for them.

If you find it hard to do so, and you find yourself hating back, it is then you must realize and make the decision to start the journey of finding out what happiness means to you, and find yours.

If you hate, that means that you were tricked. And from there you can be either mad at yourself for being so foolish and hate back, or just realize to NEVER do it again, and get the things away from you that blinded you.

- Joey JcM

A Lot of People Wonder Just How Good People Actually Go About Doing Good

If your doing something good, your most of the time going to get laughed at.

Some people do it as a mistake, some people are just malice. It's hard, but try not to hate them, but just rather feel bad for them.

Know that, and in the end, the people that deserve to celebrate with you after the Death Star is destroyed, will not be ashamed to show their face.

- Joey JcM

Are You Ready?

Life is about struggling to get to where you want to be. Anything else, your just a slave.

- Joey JcM

Hmm.. Where Havn't I Looked? 8o

Sometimes, the answers lye in places that you wouldn't usually look.

- Joey JcM

Don't Blind Yourself to the Point Where You Think Masks are Real/Negativity Try's to Start a Fire of Negativty. Don't Give It Oxygen.

Some people only know how to make a big deal of what they see with their eyes.

Too many people who only use there eyes, usually can't see the truth. Too many people make a big deal out of what they see with there eyes, but if your not using your heart, your eyes will have you believing masks that people wear. You see people following masks all over the place. When your a teenager, and on the road to discovering who you are, and what your made of, you might be effected by this. You can only though, that someone chooses in the end, to not be afraid to look at ugliness in the face. Because usually, ugliness comes from depriving yourself of love, and respect for yourself.

Too many people wonder why they don't feel right around certain people. They constantly try to prove themselves to people who don't care about them, because in their head somewhere, they're telling theirself that they're on the same level as some people. YOU are not an asswhole, so if you feel unwelcome, don't disrespect yourself by doing things things that will hurt yourself. Don't you realize if your doing that, your around misery? And obviously, misery wants you to be on the same level.

If your trying to make someone out to be a bad person, your usually the bad person, because advertising hate usually means your trying to create more of it. If you TRULY feel that someone is bad, just get away from them, or take the proper precautions to get them out of your life. You wouldn't keep trash, cause it could make you sick.

And if you adopt these people that try, in anyway, to make you out to be something your not, it's time to evaluate your life, and fix it. If you can realize your disposition, and fix it, you'll wake up one day and discover things about yourself you never knew. And it will be beautiful, why, because it's you.

- Joey JcM

The More Fears, the Less Knowledge

When you have lingering fears, your limiting your knowledge. Unresolved fears can hold you back from a great many things, therefore limiting your knowledge, and experience.

Bad guys try to take over the world because they're afraid of the world, and don't know how to live in it, so they want to control it. Instead of going out there and learning, they want to force everyone to conform to their limited knowledge.

Bad guys will try to PUSH their beliefs on you. Instead of sharing their stories, they'll just force you to repeat what they say.
There's all different ways they go about it. Some might just keep saying the same thing a different way, until you say "OK FINE! I agree with you!". And if you don't agree, and get mad, thats EXACTLY what they're looking for.
Bad guys mostly don't even know what is coming out of their mouth. They just know they by saying this, it will get THAT reaction. They usually look for you to get ticked off, so they can say "SEE YOUR THE BAD GUYYY! YOU YELLED!"
Thats why, you simply don't deal with soul suckers, you just walk away. The worst pain you can give them, because they have no energy to suck from you.

Don't be a fool to a "pusher". Let them try to go bring down someone else's mood. Your better then that. If they don't wanna fface their fears or grow up, then just walk away, because all's your doing otherwise is just getting your energy sucked.

- Joey JcM

Nothing Else Matters But the True Intensions

No matter what attributes a person might have, a person is defined by their ultimate goal.

A person's "Ultimate Goal" is not always discovered by their words, but mostly through actions.

Quite simply, if any conflicting feelings you have, none are to be ignored. Discover what those troubled feelings are, and take care of the situation accordingly. Some just actions might lead you to loneliness. Do not be afraid of loneliness.
If cleansed of garbage you are, the positivity will see it safe to return to you. This sacrifice is necessary to show if your "main goal" is worth the positive energy returning to you. If not, it has plenty of kind and beautiful people to occupy

- Joey JcM

When Your Down, and Fooled, Where Can You Turn? 8o

When they have those eyes, like they look like they can be trusted, but something is telling you there is fish around somewhere, how do you know whats the right thing to do?

Your heart is there to always show you the true face of people.

Face the truth, and don't walk away with any regrets, and you will be liberated.

Guide to Keeping It Cool "Undaa Preshhaaa"

If you ever become famous and get nervous, just say to yourself, there's no need to get nervous.

If you get famous, just make yourself look nice, and be a good person, and you will have nothing to worry about.

If you ARE worrying, then its time to take a look around you, and see who the people are in your life. Start taking out the trash.

YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL WORRIED, SECOND GUESS YOURSELF, OR FEEL LIKE YOU CAN'T GIVE YOURSELF 100%. If this is the case, then you have trash in your life. And yes, simply getting rid of them WILL help.
Don't be nasty to people, simply know this:

Friends: Take care of your heart
Acquaintances: Not worthy of getting close to it

How do you know the difference? You won't need too. Get the trash out of your life, and your senses are heart won't be clouded, and they will let you know.

- Joey JcM

What a Person You Love REALLY Looks Like. How Can You Tell?

The world might see the person that you love with their eyes. When you love someone though, it's your heart that see's what the person really looks like, and it's your HEART that says "Hey, check her out!"

They say "Love is blind". I say, when you love someone you see them for what they REALLY look like, and thats something you can't see with your eyes.

But keep a look out though, you should be able to see everyone for what they truly look like. Your senses give you an idea, but your heart tell you the truth.
... and people CAN turn to the Darkside.

Always remember - ONLY A SITH DEALS IN ABSOLUTES. A person you love can be consumed by the darkside, and cease to be the person that they once were.

- Joey JcM

The Definition of an Ex-Girlfriend

An ex-girl friend is someone for whatever reason, you can't love any more because you can't trust them with caring for your heart, which is the job of your significant other.

- Joey JcM