The Real Definition of Family ~ And Identifying When Someone Is Not

 The real meaning of family simply is -    Hope for one another .

Help each other prosper, help each other achieve your goals.

Anyone who is going against the energy of family, whether it be wasting resources, doing drugs, or only concerned about themselves while other people are suffering, are not to be considered family. 

- You may try to help these people, but once it's clear that helping them is becoming a bleeding hole in the ship, you cannot let them take the whole family down with them. One thing ruining everything else is essentially the definition of cancer. 

 

- JcM 

Canceling Disolves Knowledge, Then All We Will Know is the Cancel

We either know each other and survive and prosper, or we hide away from communication and let fear be the complete driver, cause what we don't know we fear. If we strive to not know, then the lack of knowledge will completely destroy any hope and each other, from acting through fear, instead of through knowledge.

 

Condemning without questioning/quick judgement = lack of knowing, which = fear.

The more we cancel, the less we know. If we cancel and not question, how do we know how to avoid the situation the next time? 

 

Striving for lack of knowledge, therefore striving to live in fear will lead to a canceling snow ball, that will grow as it rolls down the hill. The more we cancel, the more we will fear, and the less and less we will know. The fear will grow from lack of learning anything, until every single thing we know is canceled, including the human race, because all of the knowledge will have disappeared, and all we will know is cancel. 

 

- JcM  

 

Achieving a Little, Is a Lot

Sometimes, trying to achieve a lot in one day can lead to achieving only a little.

Then, it makes you realize, that achieving a little in one day, really means a lot.

~ Slow down.. sometimes we forget how much work "time saving technology" has actually created for us ~

- Joey JcM

Whatever You Are, You Do. Don't Think

Whatever you are is not something you think about, it's something you just do.

- Joey JcM

You Before Advancement

The goal is to not really try to "become better", but rather to try to discover who and what you are, and to become more of THAT. Thats only when you can TRULY advance YOURSELF.

Being you is the most important. The advancement will come along after that ~

- Joey JcM

Narcissistic Depression

A different kind of depression.
A seemingly unidentified form of depression.

Narcissistic Depression, is what i call, when a person is depressed, but the signs are not "looking down", or "looking sad", or "sad signs". No, this "depression" is different.

This depression is a desperation to "prove". Desperate to prove some sort of knowledge you might have acquired. Desperate to prove what you might have done, or to show where you might have gone.

Most of all, a desperation to constantly be an actor. To try to make yourself believe there is nothing paining you inside. A desperation to constantly attempt to make people believe there is nothing wrong.

(This may also include a desperation to force people to have no opinion other then the one you want to force them to have about yourself.)

A desperation to prove your life is great, usually shows that you're desperatly hiding something.

- Joey JcM

The Mind: A Vessel or a Prison

The mind can be used as a tool to see the truth. Or it can be used to imprison.

- Joey JcM

The Monster Cook Book

One way to create a monster, is to give them everything, but teach them nothing.

- Joey JcM

The Modern Slave

The only way you're a slave in todays world is if someone convinces you to hurt someone, instead of hug someone.

- Joey JcM

The One Thing You Can't Learn From Google

The one thing you can't learn from google is humanity.

If you want peace, you can't obtain it from there.

- Joey JcM

Everyone is a Threat, When.....

Everyone is a threat, when you don't know how to find out who people really are.

If you can't find out who anyone is, everyone will be unknown to you. (Then this leads me to the classic fraise: People fear what they don't know, or don't understand.)

And if you don't know, you don't know what you're potentially bringing into your life, or, what you could potentially be passing up on..

Don't judge somebody by not knowing who they are. If you don't know who they are, don't listen to what other people tell you they are. Find out for yourself. Especially if you don't really know the person who's telling you about other people.

Everyone will be an enemy to you, it will always be someone, or something else's fault, if your only way is assuming. Assuming is pretending like you know the facts, when you really don't. And if alls you do is assume, you will never really know anything...

A person that prevents themselves from knowing, is a person that will never be in the know, therefore, will always be afraid...

- Joey JcM

Just Because This Can.. Should You?

Just because our phones can do so many things, doesn't mean we should.

If someone can fly a plane, and you can't, it doesn't mean you should.

- Joey JcM

Are You Machine?

Is it that, we use so many machines, that we expect people to be machines too?...

- Joey JcM

Life is About...

Life is about discovering everything you are, and then taking off on that road.

- Joey JcM

We've Been Given

We have been sent here. Why? We don't know...

But since we're here.. what to do? Might as well make it good.

Whats the other option?.. Show whoever sent us here that we are pathetic?  And do nothing with what we have been given?

We can do things. We have been given the ability to do things ~

- Joey JcM

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To Have A Mind Breathe

Mental health should not be the art of trying to get around, or bury the problem in your brain, but rather identifying what is blocking, styfling, choking or sufficating your brain.

- Joey JcM

More Importantly Than Love...

      Not turning into a monster is more important than love... because if you are a monster, there can be no love.. ~

- Joey JcM

The Scientific Reason "Good" Beats "Bad"

Good will always beat bad, not because of the statement of someone that's delusional, but because it's science. "Evil" is just another form of saying the word "unhealthy". To achieve "Evil" you have to block some form of health, therefore, with "good" really meaning "healthy", good automatically has more options; more clarity.

With the lack of health and clarity it takes to achieve evil, the options for the unhealthy and unclear are severally diminished compared to the other opposite, this is why "good" will always beat "bad".

Love,

     Joey JcM

The Term "Grown Up"

Grow up is a term created by people of the past who were made to be extremely afraid to be themselves. Surrounded by depressed creatures who became mentally ill.

This term is not to be mistaken for the word - Maturity.

Maturity is what you should strive to attain. Not to "grow up" - meaning, forcefully rip out a part of who you are, and become zombie like.

- Joey JcM

What Makes Us Human... .

What makes us human is our urge to say f*ck you to the lifestyle of an animal..

- Joey JcM