Holidays. Incase You Forgot ~

If you have lost site of what the holidays are about, let me remind you. The holidays are a time to take everything from the whole year, all your emotions, and filter them out. With filtering out all your emotions, brings clarity. Thats why the holidays are a happy time. Clarity brings happiness. It's like summer time is maintenance for the body, and Christmas is maintenance for the soul. So when the holidays come, but the nice music on....... light your tree.... or the menorah... or whatever you have, sit in peace, calm your soul. Let it cool down from a long hard year. For there is nothing you can be more thankful for then cleansing your soul, and letting that light inside of you shine alittle brighter.

- Joey JcM

Easy Way to Know Who Needs to Go

The best way to determine who needs to go in your life is to imagine working with that person.
If you imagine working with with that person (the person you are questioning), you can easily imagine if that person would be someone to try get you fired or not. If so, that's the person that needs to go.

- Joey JcM

The Misconception of Goals & Dreams

No goal is worth making yourself completely unhappy to get to. Sacrifice is one thing, selling your soul is another.
What is the end result of any goal anyway? Warmth and attention. So if your making yourself unhappy just to achieve a goal of getting attention from people who don't even know you, you are doing it for all the wrong reasons.

Having a foundation in your life is everything. A life where you can breathe; A life where you are respected. Thats all that really matters anyway, and thats all everyone really wants. And if you are having a personal battle with your soul to achieve certain goals, then the foundation is what is going to keep you going.

Otherwise, without it, thats when people resort to drugs and other means of manipulation; things they don't really need to help them keep going. Only to find out in the end, that there is no promise land waiting to be handed to you. That the promise land is something that you create for yourself.

- Joey JcM

Unhealthy Relationship Example + Living Well

You cannot see somebody and say "I know who or what this person can be" and be in love with them. It's great that you can see what they have to offer inside, but if thats the situation you're in, understand that you can try for them a few times, but after that, get out.

What a person can be is not what they are. You have to judge them on what they are being. Maybe by meeting you they will be inspired to bring who they truly are out of them. But thats an extremely rare case, so do not bank on that.

Everyone has a light inside of them, no matter how little it may be, there is a light, and that light is who they truly are. But until they choose to be that person, the thought of them being that person is just concept art.

Love is a VERY big and intricate thing. Never jump into or just expect it to change. If it's right, god on ya mate! But until it is right, it is not, so never blind yourself. And if you do happen to get blind, learn from it, or else you deserve everything you get.

Holla, much love. Live healthy by living you. Cherish when you're happy, and never ignore an uncomfortable feeling.

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-Joey JcM

Fear = Backwards, & Not in the Cool, MoonWalk Way

People in ancient days killed, and fought wars so that they could feel like they were on the top of the mountain, so everyone would pay attention to them, so they wouldn't feel alone.

Read that again.

(In other words, all the wars in the past were about being at the top of the mountain to get attention, but if you're killing people, who is there to get attention from? Fear is only meant to trick you and have you believe none sense, and alls you wind up being is the puppet that is getting laughed at.)

See how clouded and ignorant fear makes you. This is why you cannot except oppression, or else you will live you're life in fear, and forever confused. Never being able to see.

- Joey JcM

Loving vs. Learning

When you see someone going with someone, and you look at it and you're like "..what??" and it just doesn't make sense, that person is looking to get close to someone that they don't really like, in order to create a situation that they don't want to be in, to force the anger that they have inside out that they don't know how to get out on their own.

The sad part is when people mistake this sinario for love. They're not in love with the person, they're in love with the fact that they're their ticket to emotional discovery and freedom. It's the difference between puppy love and real love.

Granted, there are cases when people find their loves the first time through, but most of the time, it's just a part of learning and growing up and moving on.

My only hope is that more people know the difference between loving and learning.

- Joey JcM

Want To, But Can't? Self Cock-Blocking

If you keep saying you want to do something, but just can't seem to ever get it done. That means you have too many aggravations in you're life that are taking up all your time. You spend all your time cleaning up shyt. You're cock-blocking yourself by putting things in your life that are only taking from you.

- Joey JcM