In the end you learn that it's not about the people seeing you complete your dream, and living by the rules of how they will like you. The people aren't going to always be there, but YOU will always be there with yourself, so make your goals and dreams be about YOU. So then one day you can have kids as a fulfilled person, and not someone that is going to use their children. You're life is your life, and their life is theirs.
- Joey JcM