Niceness Confusion

If you are lonely, don't go round trying to make a project out of making everyone else NOT lonely. You're just going to be starting a million projects that you can't finish.

Don't confuse your "niceness". Working on your own life is going to help a lot more people out then you ignoring yourself and trying to distract yourself from whats going on inside by living vicariously through other people and helping them out instead.

- Joey JcM

Perfect Phony Detector Technique

When people are in a depressive situation, they want to control and rule another. They want to suck from something else, to constantly give themselves the energy to survive the beating, whether mental or physical that they are getting.

Sucking life from another person comes in all different forms. Sometimes if you are the target, you are infiltrated with kindness, only to have an attempt on your life and soul be taken from the inside.

It's very hard for most to see people like this coming to "attack" you. But the perfect way to tell is if all of a sudden you feel like you can't express yourself and tell the truth. 

- Joey JcM

Are You a Gangsta or a Gangster?

Gangsta - A bad a$$

Gangster - Someone who will do anything for the next drug, whether in physical or mental form, to hide from the fact of how much they hate themselves.

- Joey JcM

Recognizing True Love

You only have true love if:

The Mind - Can mentally breathe, and the minds air can come out of your mouth.

The Body - Can want to attack that person every night, and then want more and more.

The Heart - Feels like it's home with that person.

Happy Hunting,

- Joey JcM

A Perfect World Is......

A perfect world isn't a constant high. A perfect isn't constant happyness. That is the definition of drugs.

A perfect world is a world where you're allowed to be a human.

- Joey JcM

Benifits of Stupidity

One of the healthiest things you can do for your mind is to be wowed at the fact of how stupid you were after discovering a better way to do something.

- Joey JcM

Even Close People Could Not Be In Your Life

People are not truly in your life unless they respect you.

There can be people that you communicate with, get close with. People that you even touch and hug. People that you spend long nights talking with. Then one day you can see a picture of that person and feel so cold - you went from spending intimate nights together, not even sexual maybe, just close, and then that person is gone with no contact.

It's from these experiences that hurt our brain to grow and mature. These can be good experiences. But it helps to realize that someone was never truly in your life unless they respected you. And if they respect you, there's a good chance they won't be leaving your life.

But remember, respect is when you feel happy. Respect is when you can breathe and smile, and live how you need and live. Respect is people still being there after you do something to respect yourself.

- JcM

Do What You Need to Have What You Want

Do what you need, so when the time comes, you can treat what you WANT the right way.

- Joey JcM