What Fear Mongers Are Afraid of -

People who like to create fear, are afraid of intelligence.

For it is fear they create for the smarts that they hate, but if you are afraid of them, just know that smarts are something they would not recommend.

    Joey
- JcM

"I Will Get There"

"I will get there". Because if I "Won't get there", I won't get there.

- JcM

They're Already There, So Pray For This Instead

Instead of praying for someone to love, pray for that someone to have the balls to come up to you and say hello. There's always someone around who cares for what only YOU have to offer. You just don't know it yet. <3

- Joey JcM

When Should You Move On?

I think some people are confused with how your "supposed to grow".

Some people are lucky enough to have great surroundings, and a plateau to be themselves on. From there, grow and be happy. No need to "change" yourself just because your age, but def be open minded to build on that person.

Then there's situations where life can destroy you, and your surroundings can not so happy and healthy.When your ground has been destroyed, it's ok to move on to somewhere else where the ground is healthier. From there, you can even go back to the destroyed ground and help fix it if you choose so. But if you are not on a healthy ground, you will have nothing to grow and give.

Sometimes people are told to change when they don't have to. And sometimes people want to stay when they need to move. I just gave you the flashlight to see whats what through the clouds.

- Joey JcM

Fear Can Not Only Cloud Your Judgement, It Can Even Cloud Your Beliefs.

A fearful person considers someone who won't let them give into their fears "the enemy", because they're even scared into being afraid of what would happen if they don't give into their fears.

- Joey JcM

A Hero's Vision vs. A Villains Vision

If you want to be a hero, you can't be affraid of the effects progressing to that plateau  might bring.

The hero knows that even though he might be alone at the top, the simple fact that he is on top can help so many lives, and that there is always a chance to mend with the people once loved, as long as your breathing.
The Villain is mad that he is alone, and tries to force anything he can to fill that lonely spot in his heart (if they have one left). Hence why villains try to force people to do things against their will.

- Joey JcM Munafo

An iPhone Doesn't Have a Soul ~

No matter how much we advance, we're still not smart until we're happy.

- JcM

"People Changing" Means That You Either Throw Yourself Away, or Advance.

Things change you. Trying to prevent things from entering your soul will only leave you with no direction.

Most of the time people change for the worst. But here's a bit of advice:
Only allow things to enter your soul that act as candle light, brightening the view of yourself, to learn great new things about who you are.

You mostly hear talk about how great friends "changed for the worse". Well, with this advice at leat you can say that your an even "greater friend"... and besides, instead of talking about how far down you've gone, they'll be talking about how high you climbed.

WE Can not Hope to be Perfect..... BUT

Family is everything. Ofcorse though, being perfect is not what grants you family. It's your imperfections when experienced, which hurt you, and have you learn, that also chisel away at yourself to create perfection. Know though, that perfection can not be attained in ones self. The only day it is possible to witness perfection, is the day your child is born.

PS - Knowing that we cannot achieve perfect is not a flaw of humanity. Consider it a gift. This means we are allowed to have no limit, and keep getting better.

- Joey JcM

Hearts Initiate Creation, Not metal

We have something that machines will never, a heart. So lets stop trying to act like machines, and make them envy us. They wouldn't be here if it wasn't for us, so why are we letting THEM tell us how to act?

People That Throw Garbage on the Ground, Just Don't Know Where to through Their's

The only people who want to disgrace the world, are people who don't know how to deal with, or get rid of their grief. They're looking for help, in the worst way.

- Joey JcM

No Sense To Evil Because...

Evil just doesn't work. The only reason why evil people believe evil can work, is because evil can't do anything to you, but blind you. So evil people are blind. They certainly can take their BS pretty dam far, but they will eventually crush under their own lies which have them buried in sadness or garbage.

Life just doesn't want evil. Life demands life, thats why humans have gotten so far. Imagine if people didn't waste so much time with something that is never going to be profitable? Where we would be right now? What we would discover! There can be SO much to life that we havn't even tapped yet... maybe one day the world will wake up.

Holler
- JcM

A Parent That Made Me Say "whAAaaat!!"

On the set of Gossip Girl yesterday, I met a few parents that were sitting around me in the waiting area. They were guardians for the children that were performing on the show. There was one parent though who blew me away with what she said while talking to the other parents.

This is what she said:
"Our kids are in a different world then us. As parents all's we can do is love them and be there for them. Anything else we can only do our best. Also, not all forms of parenting are capable with every kind of child, so we have to listen to them in order to understand how we can do the best we can for them."

In my head I was like whaaAAAAAAAAAAat!! I couldn't believe I heard a parent that was SO wise! She just looked like a regular woman too, but I couldn't believe what came out of her mouth! Book covers CAN be deceiving! ;D hehe

I'm glad to see that the future of parents will be THAT much more wiser possibly. Even it if was just ONE parent that said all that, that is THAT much more hope compared to the parents of my generation that I have witnessed. Not all bad, but there are CERTAINLY some horror storys!

- BIG Joey JcM

The Difference Between Loyalty and a Leach

There's a difference between a loyal friend, and a person who is a LEACH to you.

The Leach is going to try to make you believe that they are LOYAL, and that can be quite easy to pull off. They will try to do all these "loveable" and "nobile" things for you, but it usually comes with a VERY high price. Your soul.
The smart one's won't outright ASK something of you, but rather try to guilt you into doing something thats against your better judgment.

If you are confused about what to do in a situation like so, realize this:

Loyalty is bravery.
Bravery as in: they take care of they're own buisness, so when it's time for you guys to get together, it's only time for fun, and to make memories.

If you find yourself getting in the middle of someone's conflict, stop and realize what you are doing. Now YOUR in the position for the finger to be pointed at you, while the coward who claims their a "friend" sits back while you take all the blows.
Now thats not to say to be mean to someone and try to not help. Everyone deserves a shot, or MAYybe.... rarely two, but if it's something that you find yourself CONSTANTLY have to coach the person, thats bad news.

Sometimes it's just a matter of a person needing to mature. MAybe you've been through harsher times then them, and you've matured faster then most. That DOES happen.
If you find yourself STRUGGLING to make sense of what this person in your life, who claims to be a friend, is doing, it's going to be where they just "YES" you to death, or say WHATEVER justto get you to stay around. Doesn't matter what they say, or how they do it, as long as your still their to justify all the bad shyt that they do, they could care less about you, or anyone else. Or what they've said or done, because eventually, when you speak up, they will disappear, because now your someone who can expose their game.

I've made a lot of mistakes with people. People who claimed to be "friends" of the CLOSEST verity, only to have them COMPLETELY turn on me, as if they never knew me before, without even a blink of an eye. Sickening....
People that have fooled me into hating other people, while claiming that if I don't, I wouldn't be a "good friend". But once you speak up on how you TRULY feel about whats going on, what happens? They FLEE! Because they don't want to be around anyone who can expose them for what they really are.
They will then go on to find a new group, and spread the word on how your "such a terrible person".
Well ofcorse you would be "bad" to someone who is scum, because a "terrible person" in a scumbag's eyes is someone who will expose them, so they'll say ANYTHING to have people hate you and try to stay away from you at that point of exposing them. And when new group gets wise to whats going on, the scum will find ANY excuse at all, EVEN IF IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE, to try to get away from that group as well, and go to the next.
Actually, the more ridiculous the excuse to get away from the current group is, the better for the scum, because THEN, if you get mad, they have material to pitch to the next group they try to destroy, about "how terrible" they're "old friend" is. Combine they're sob story with some good deeds, and you can easily have people just keep you around because they feel bad. But thats all scum needs to get their foot in the door.

Now i'm no fool. I know who people are right from the start, but what i'm ESPECIALLY saying is that you have to be careful of blinding yourself to these situations. It's VERY easy when you need something. They can SMELL IT.
I did it because I wanted to make a couple of movie projects, and needed people to help, so I pretended to not see the full extend of how dirty the people I was dealing with were, when it was CLEARLY right in front of my face, from the start. Other friends and peers even telling me how scummy the person I was dealing with was. And what did I wind up doing? Fighting with the people who ACTUALLY contributed to my projects, and the people who were the passionate ones. The people who I didn't have to baby, or couch into anything.
Because I was blinded, and I guess the scum I had by my side knew that these people could expose them, and the scum can't have their #1 person that they leech off of have people filling their head with truth, now can they?
I was a fool, and my eagerness blinded me.

The bottom line is, some people just THRIVE off of negativity, no matter what kind. Small or large amounts. So I hope this helps into making the blurry line alittle clearer for people who might also be in a similar situation, and who are seeing what is going on too, but ignoring it, and just need alittle kick in the a$$.

HoLLerrr!
- Joey JcM

Take Unhappyness Seriously

A man should never have to second guess what he says. If you are doubting yourself, then something is stopping you from being a free, and happy man.

Take this seriously because if this is the case, realize, that the ones you love will be made to suffer at your hand.

- Joey JcM