When you see someone going with someone, and you look at it and you're like "..what??" and it just doesn't make sense, that person is looking to get close to someone that they don't really like, in order to create a situation that they don't want to be in, to force the anger that they have inside out that they don't know how to get out on their own.
The sad part is when people mistake this sinario for love. They're not in love with the person, they're in love with the fact that they're their ticket to emotional discovery and freedom. It's the difference between puppy love and real love.
Granted, there are cases when people find their loves the first time through, but most of the time, it's just a part of learning and growing up and moving on.
My only hope is that more people know the difference between loving and learning.
- Joey JcM