If you are lonely, don't go round trying to make a project out of making everyone else NOT lonely. You're just going to be starting a million projects that you can't finish.
Don't confuse your "niceness". Working on your own life is going to help a lot more people out then you ignoring yourself and trying to distract yourself from whats going on inside by living vicariously through other people and helping them out instead.
- Joey JcM