The reason why people like anything dark, is because feeling pain = feeling alive.
So a perfect life isn't a life without problems, it's a life of being able to survive and live on.
We see it everywhere. People beg to feel some sort of loss or pain. Thats why people do drugs. Thats why there are nasty people in the world. These people want to class with something or someone. Being nasty is an act of begging. These people want someone to have physical contact with them and knock some sense into them.They want to know what pain is.
Not knowing what pain is makes people very scared. People want to feel pain to know that they can survive. Human being need to FEEL that they can survive.
Because trust me, I've been through a lot of shyt in my life, and i'm happy because of it. I know what pain is, I know what loss is, I know what life is. This is why i'm not out there doing drugs, being an asshole, begging for someone to punch me in the face.
So remember, pain is ok. A perfect world is not a word without problems, it's a world where you can survive the problems, so you can know and feel that you can survive, and to know how far is too far. Because if you don't know pain and just how far is too far, you will live your life scared that you will fall into a trap and weren't smart enough to protect yourself.
- Joey JcM