The only way you can truly love someone is if you love yourself.
And not for the tipicle reasons that everybody posts... but because if you truly love somebody, you will let them do what they have to do, and know that you will always have yourself no matter what.
Because if you don't let the person do what they gotta do, they will eventually leave you to go do it.
Better to let them do it, and have them come back, then try to keep them and have them leave you.
And the only way you can achieve this, is if you love yourself...
- Joey JcM