The person you look up to, your Obi-Wan Kenobi, doesn't always have to be a family member. Remember, Luke wasn't blood related to Obi-Wan.
The problem is, for some kids, there seems to be nothing around but a Darth Vader in their life. Or even if they're not, desperate enough, they will believe whatever a Darth Vader tells them.
Help them Obi-Wan Kenobi. Your they're only hope.
- Joey JcM